With the holidays right around the corner, this post is to the many couples who have or will get engaged over the holidays.

First for the Groom:

         Ask the bride’s father for approval, get an engagement ring, and plan and carryout proposal!
And for the Bride-to-be:
         Say YES!
Then depending on how long your engagement will be can change your timeline quite a bit so use this information according to how it best fits your circumstances.

6+ Months before the Big Day:

  • Decide on your wedding date
  • Review wedding budget
  • Select and reserve reception center
  • Plan a color scheme/theme of event
  • Choose bridesmaids and groomsman
  • If you are planning 8+ months in advance
    • Consider sending out a “save the date” notification
  • Begin guest list
  • Check requirements for marriage license

    • Possibly have to order a new birth certificate
3-6 Months before the Big Day:

  • Shop for wedding dress/grooms attire
    • Select bridesmaids and groomsman attire
  • Select cake decorator, photographer, videographer, caterer, florist
    • Take engagement photos
  • Bridal registry selection
  • Design and order invitations
  • Make honeymoon arrangements
1-3 Months before the Big Day:
  • Finalize guest list and address invitations
  • Plan reception, food, decor
  • Plan menu and finalize wedding cake order
  • Get bridals taken
  • Schedule any hair/nail appointments
  • Figure out health insurance/health check-ups
Last Month before wedding day:

  • Get marriage license
  • Confirm ALL arrangements
  • Order photos for reception
  • Send invitations
  • Prepare any wedding speeches or vows
Day before the Big Day:
  • Get manicure/pedicure, possibly a massage
  • Put everything you will need the following day together
  • RELAX and go to bed early!
After the Big Day:
  • Return rental items
  • Freeze top layer of cake
  • Open gifts and keep a list
    • Send thank you notes
  • Change your name and all necessary documents

This is meant to be an overview, not a list of every item! 
Happy Planning!